Captivate and Keep Your Man

How to Make Any Man Fall in Love with You

If you are anything like me, you’ve been head over heels crazy for a man who seemed to “like” you. That was the story with my boyfriend. I could have spent all day, every day with him. He, on the other hand, didn’t seem to remember I existed half the time. It was annoying and frustrating. It’s not easy being in love with a man who doesn’t feel the same way.

I tried everything in my power to get him more interested. I dressed in provocative clothing, I cooked extravagant meals – I even wrote him love letters. I’d get an occasional – “you look great” or “thanks for that.” Nothing more.

I knew I needed to change something. Other single friends all had their own jewels of advice that ranged from dating another man to make him jealous to giving him an ultimatum. Since most of them were also struggling in their own relationships, I knew I needed better guidance than that.

I don’t know why it didn’t dawn on me sooner- if I want to get under a man’s skin – become the woman he thinks about constantly -I had to learn exactly what it is men want from a woman.

I was at a point where I had nothing to lose – I wasn’t happy with the way the relationship was progressing – and he wasn’t about to change on his own.

If you love a man and want to make him your own – you need to understand what triggers the feelings of love in a man. Once you understand this, you’ll be able to draw him in – hook, line and sinker.

Oh and that man I was dating – is now my husband.

What Won’t Make Him Love You

Put These on Your Do-Not-Do List!

As women we’re often brought up to believe we have to be perfect to find the man of our dreams. That’s rubbish. I know because I was one of the women who strived for perfection for years. It didn’t get me the man of my dreams. It did make me miserable though. I wasn’t being myself.

Here’s a list of things you shouldn’t be doing in an effort to make a man fall in love with you:

Cater to his every need. There’s a great chance that if you do this – cater to every whim of a man, he’s going to stick around. But it’s not because you are the woman for him, it’s because you’ll do anything he wants. NEVER cook a man dinner every night. NEVER do his laundry if you are dating. NEVER clean his apartment for him and NEVER run over to his place simply because he’s feeling frisky.

Change your appearance for him. If you wear pink lipstick and the man you are dating says he prefers red, don’t convert. If you do you are showing him that you are easily manipulated. Men like a woman with her own mind. Don’t change who you are just because there’s something about you he doesn’t automatically like.

Act like his mother. Don’t treat any man you are dating like a child. This means no calling him all the time. Don’t ask him where he’s been if you haven’t heard from him in a while and never tell him to button up his coat if it’s cold outside. He already has a mother, he doesn’t want you to be one too.

Assume he knows what you want. Men can’t read minds. Their minds also don’t operate the same way yours does. If you expect a man to know what you want from him, you’ll always be disappointed.

If you want to get a man to sit up and take notice of only you, you need to understand how to become irresistible to him.

Long Term Dating

Knowing Whether He’ll Ever Pop THE Question

As women we tend to be very patient – too patient sometimes. We’ll wait and wait for the man we are dating to first utter those three words we long to hear ‘I love you’ followed by a close second ‘let’s get married.’

The problem is that some of us wait, and wait, and wait. Months, then years pass and the most we get from our guy is the occasional ‘you’re cool’ or ‘you’re a lot of fun.’ Futures aren’t build on fun alone.

There are easy ways to tell if your relationship is headed for something more substantial or if he’s considers you his girlfriend or in some cases girl friend.

If a man is even considering a deeper commitment with a woman, he’ll do at least one of the following:

Introduce her to his family. I’ve dated men who seemed to be orphans. I’d wait patiently to meet his family, only to discover he was keeping them at arm’s length from me. Men want their parents and siblings to meet a woman they are in love with. If he’s keeping you away from them, it’s not a good sign.

He’ll keep in close touch. He may not call like clockwork but he won’t let too much time pass without hearing your voice or seeing you. When a man is really interested in a woman, he’ll also want to know what’s going on in her life – all the small, seemingly boring details will be interesting to him. An in-the-moment man will usually call and ask if you’re busy. The reason being he’s got a few minutes to fit you into his schedule and he’s in a frisky mood.

He has a savings account. If the man you are involved with is often asking you to buy him dinner, or he makes excuses about not having enough money to buy you a holiday, Valentine’s or birthday gift, he’s not thinking long term. When marriage is on a man’s mind he is saving for the future.

If you want to know how to get a man to commit to you - find out how to ensure he can’t live without you.

My Review of Men Made Easy – How to Capture His Heart Forever

Trying to understand men is not the easiest thing for a woman. I know – more than one man has had me feeling pretty confused about myself and my relationships in the past.

In my pursuit to finally take control of my own dating experiences, I started doing some research. I read everything I could find. Then I found Men Made Easy.

Men Made Easy is written by Kara Oh. Kara is widely referred to as the “Heart Whisperer” for good reason. She knows what makes relationships work. In the book she shares with women what they can do right now to get men to respond to them exactly as they want.

Men Made Easy gives you amazing insight into how men think and the triggers that women need to be aware of that when used will make a man weak in the knees and will draw him naturally to her. You’re also going to discover the secret that transforms any ordinary relationship into an exceptional, passionate lifelong love affair. 

If you want men to chase you – or if there’s one man in particular you want as your own – read the book. Use the book and live by the book. It will change your relationship with men – forever.

You’re also going to receive an extra special gift when you get Men Made Easy. You’ll be able to talk with the author, Kara Oh, for a one-on-one 20 minute telephone consultation. You can ask her anything you want about your own unique situation and she’ll give you her invaluable insight. This is itself is priceless.

PS -read the tip on page 23 as soon as possible – it explains the single most powerful tool to ignite romantic love in your man.

If You’re No Longer With the Man You Love

Get Him Back and Deeper in Love with You

If you already have a man in your life that you love deeply and the relationship isn’t everything you want it to be, it can be incredibly frustrating. He might be unwilling to be exclusive or he just seems to waffle on whether he even wants to be in a relationship. Perhaps he’s told you that he needs time or space and has broken up with you.

As women we tend to think that all we need to do is share our feelings with the man in our life and he’ll react in a positive way and be drawn in. The biggest problem with this is that men don’t respond to words the same way we do. Imagine after a break up or during a conflict your boyfriend says “I’m sorry for all this, what really matters is that I love you more than I’ve ever loved anyone.” I know I’d melt if I heard this. Men don’t melt when a woman says this to them, they rarely even flinch.

It’s all about actions. The things you do are what will either make him want to devote himself to you entirely or make him want to leave the relationship for good.

Find out now what you need to be doing – not saying – to get the man in your life to love you deeply now. Most women don’t realize that their actions in the days and weeks following a break up determine whether or not they’ll get that second chance they want. This is true regardless if you are with a man that you want a deeper commitment with or if you’re going through a break up and you want him back.

If your boyfriend or your ex boyfriend is the man for you - DON’T LET HIM GET AWAY! It’s guaranteed to work. Love is rare please don’t let it slip through your fingers.

 

Additional Resources

Helpful Tools for Women

Rousing the Lion A hypnotic approach to capturing the unwavering love of a man. Unique and effective ideas for getting him to fall helplessly in love with you.

Text the Romance Back Do you want to  learn how to create an intimate emotional channel between you and your man? Text the Romance from Michael Fiore is exactly what you need.

Increase Your Sensuality Men love a woman who is confident and adventurous in intimate situations. Fantastic resource for any woman who wants to wow her man behind closed doors.

Make a Man Love You Advice

Gillian’s Weekly Tip on Making Him Love You More

January 22, 2012 – A sense of humor is always attractive to a man. There is a very fine line between having a fun and healthy sense of humor and using others at the expense of getting him to smile or laugh. You never want to poke fun at someone else in an effort to get a man to think you’re comical. He won’t. The same is true of yourself. Although it’s obviously important that you don’t take yourself too seriously, don’t make yourself the brunt of every joke you make in his presence. He’ll start to see you as someone who doesn’t like herself and you absolutely don’t want to make that impression on him. Instead, go to a funny movie, or tell him a joke or two you heard recently. If an opportunity pops up where you can demonstrate how witty you are, embrace it. If you can keep a smile on his face, he’s going to want to spend as much time with you as possible. One of the ways to a man’s heart is definitely through his funny bone.